If a family member of yours was starting to say negative things about you to your 3.5 year old child, and you know this will only progress over time, what would you do? (So negative in the eyes of that child that she was not comfortable coming directly to me about it!)
Wait! It's not that simple. I'm sure someone will say, "Just sit down with that FM and discuss what is appropriate to say to your daughter."
Let me throw into the pot Borderline Personality Disorder, and I'm ALWAYS the bad person (if you are familiar with this disorder, you'll fully understand).
Now, suggestions as to how I approach this?